wat happen if

Wat happen if u suddenly realise all along you have been living in another person's shadow? (random thoughts)
Wat happen if u suddenly realise u prefer the old u?
Wat happen if u suddenly realise wat u have done is not the best for all including urself?

Wat happen if?

Living in another person's shadow so what? if u have been doing so and lasting for so long, means that person is worth u doing so..
Prefers the old u? or do u actually mean the old life style? u can always be the old u anytime u wish, cos u control ur action, behaviours n thinking..but getting back to the old life style that you have already given up? difficult cos time is not something u can turn back once u have decided to move on to another kind of lifestyle..a pity..
If ur approach is not bringing the best results and not accepted by all, den just please yourself. It should be much easier to do so then trying to please everyone else but yourself..

Im sad that my fren is feeling unhappy..shes always strong but yet she breaks down 'in front' of me..i feel her hurt, her unhappiness n her disappointments in that moment..wanted very much to help her. But wat can i do? I thought she should be in her happiest state now that she found someone she likes and able to spend time w..why is she feeling unhappy still? what izit that she is looking for besides this? I hope she can find the ans for herself..
Please let me be able to help my fren still..